I'm sure every girl or even guy have best friend or even a couple best friends during their lifetime. It might be during Poly/Jc, Uni, Army, Secondary School or some even Primary school.
Whats the definition of Best friend(s)?
so i decided to google and find out.
- Involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis.
- Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism.
- Tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities.
- They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship.
- A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors.
Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the TRUST that someone or something will not harm them.
Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:
- the tendency to desire what is best for the other,
- sympathy and empathy,
- honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart.
- mutual understanding.
so much said;
To Zoe. Definition of Best friend is: A person who desire the best for the other person, you know well and regard with affection and trust.
Was clearing up the many many junk in my house. Came across some pieces of paper in which triggers, how i almost forgot the love in writing poems.
I did a poem for my girlfriends (in Secondary School). So here goes. I was secondary one! So bear with my limitations in words!
Here goes;
Just 4 years ago, we came together as complete strangers.
We came from diverse walks of life and unfamilar faces.
Despite being different and special in one's own way,
it did not prevent us from caring and never once hindered us from sharing.
it did not prevent us from caring and never once hindered us from sharing.
The many secrets we had between us,
'thou sometimes the beans are spilt and the cat let out of the bag.
The anger, fear and fury that took place and left,
reminds us of how much more important our friendship meant.
'thou sometimes the beans are spilt and the cat let out of the bag.
The anger, fear and fury that took place and left,
reminds us of how much more important our friendship meant.
We had joy and sorrows day after day, we braved it through by the end of the day.
The times we fought and quarrelled, are definitely the last days i ever wanted.
All i hope is joy and happiness to take us through our secondary school education.
With friends like you, my school days are gladly enough,
for no one else can replace even half.
With friends like you, my school days are gladly enough,
for no one else can replace even half.
Our songs of love and joy, which keeps spining in my mind,
would never be erased till end of time.
Now or never, i penned this poem.
For i want you to know how
good and lucky i am to be ablke to have you friends,
to hold.
2 comments :
Sweetie Zoe, that's very touching T_T
hehe! Hope you like it. I think i photocopied the POEM for all of you! WHERE IS IT!!! haha!
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